Have you noticed unsettling changes in your son’s behaviour or attitude? It’s important to stay alert to the influences shaping him. Could he be picking up controversial traits linked to figures like Andrew Tate?
1. He’s Getting More Aggressive
Is your son becoming aggressive in how he talks or acts? This might be a sign he’s taking in harmful ideas about how men should behave.
2. He Disrespects Women
Listen to how he talks about and treats women. Any signs of disrespect could be a serious red flag.
3. He’s Obsessed With Showing off Wealth
Has he started to obsess over having expensive things or showing off a high-status lifestyle?
4. He’s Changing How He Uses the Internet
Keep an eye on his social media and what he browses online. If he’s following controversial figures or spending time in toxic online spaces, that’s worrying.
5. He Doesn’t Respect Authority
If he’s suddenly dismissive of teachers, bosses, or other authority figures, it’s worth thinking about why his views on power are changing.
6. He Talks About Being an ‘Alpha’
Is he using terms like “alpha” to describe himself or put others down? This can be damaging and isolating.
7. He’s Becoming Secretive
If he’s being secretive, especially about what he’s doing online, he might be getting into things you’d be concerned about.
8. He Sees Things in Black and White
Watch for if he starts seeing everything as black or white, right or wrong—this kind of extreme thinking can be a sign of trouble.
9. He’s Obsessed With Looking Tough
It’s normal to care about appearance, but if he’s obsessed with looking tough or dominant, there might be deeper issues at play.
10. He Talks About Manipulating People
It’s a big red flag if he talks about using people or manipulating situations to get what he wants.
11. His Friends Are Changing
Has he dropped his old friends for new ones who seem to encourage bad behaviour?
12. He Uses Harsh or Offensive Language
If he starts using slurs or very aggressive language, this is a sign he could be moving towards more extreme views.
13. He Won’t Compromise
A sudden inability to compromise or consider other people’s feelings could point to a bigger issue with empathy.
14. He Mocks Emotional Expression
If he’s mocking people for being vulnerable or emotional, he might be buying into toxic ideas about masculinity.
15. He Ignores the Consequences of His Actions
If he’s taking risks without thinking about what might happen, that’s worrying.
16. He Justifies Bad Behaviour
Be concerned if he starts making excuses for doing things you know are wrong.
17. He’s Preoccupied With Being Dominant
An unhealthy focus on being in control in all his relationships can lead to harmful behaviours.
18. He Criticises ‘Cancel Culture’
While it’s okay to have critiques, if he’s outright dismissive of any accountability efforts, it might show a misalignment with respectful societal values.
19. He Shuts Down During Discussions
Is he defensive or angry when certain topics come up? This could mean he’s becoming closed off to reasonable conversations.
20. He Idolises Divisive Figures
If he admires or often defends public figures known for divisive views, it’s a good time to talk about the influences on him.
Is It Time to Step In?
These signs are worrying and might mean it’s time for a serious talk. Opening up a dialogue about the values you hope to see him embrace is crucial. If things seem out of hand, consider seeking professional advice. This isn’t just about steering him back on track; it’s about making sure he grows into a responsible, caring adult.
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