Navigating your 40s can be a time of significant sophistication and self-reflection, but are some phrases keeping you tethered to your younger self? Isn’t it time we embraced a more distinguished vocabulary befitting this new chapter?
1. “That’s Bangin'”
Once a way to show enthusiasm, now it might just show your age. Let’s replace it with “excellent” or “superb.”
2. “You Only Live Once”
Favoured by the youth, this phrase has had its day. Consider the more timeless “carpe diem.”
3. “It’s Lit”
This one’s burnt out. Try “it’s exciting” or “that’s fantastic” for a change.
4. “I Can’t Even”
Let’s opt for clarity in our 40s. Describe what’s bothering you instead of leaving it vague.
5. “I’m Too Old for This”
Talking about age can be self-defeating. Embrace new experiences with “let’s give it a go.”
6. “Turnt Up”
Time to turn down the youth slang. Express enthusiasm with “I’m looking forward to this.”
7. “Bae”
Timeless terms of endearment like “darling” or “love” never age. Let’s use those instead.
8. “FOMO”
Instead of admitting to a “Fear Of Missing Out,” why not take pride in your choices?
9. “Adulting”
Surely by now, we’re all adept at managing life’s tasks—simply “managing” or “handling responsibilities” will suffice.
10. “Sorry, Not Sorry”
It’s better to be sincere in your apologies or stand firm in your statements without flippancy.
11. “This Is Everything”
Let’s be specific about what we’re praising. Try “this is remarkable” or “this is impressive.”
12. “I Literally Can’t”
If you’re struggling, specify why. It’s more authentic and less dismissive.
13. “Totes”
Totally have the time to say the entire word now, haven’t we?
14. “Amazeballs”
Let’s opt for “impressive” or “incredible,” which are undoubtedly more grown-up.
15. “On Fleek”
Things might still be on point, but let’s say “perfectly done” or “spot on” instead.
16. “No Worries, If Not”
Be more assertive. If you’re okay with outcomes, a simple “okay” will do.
17. “Hangry”
Just say you’re very hungry. It sounds much less like an excuse for poor mood.
18. “Throw Shade”
Let’s articulate our critiques clearly and maturely.
19. “It Me”
You’ve had decades to articulate your identity. Use “that’s like me” or “I can relate.”
20. “Can’t Even Deal”
Instead, explain what aspect of the situation is overwhelming. Specificity reflects wisdom.
21. “Killing It”
Perhaps now we’re simply “achieving great success” or “excelling.”
22. “Squad Goals”
Focus on personal relationships rather than group ideals.
23. “Snatched”
Straightforward compliments like “you look fantastic” are timeless and respectful.
24. “Spill the Tea”
Opt for “share the news” or “let’s discuss the details” — it’s straightforward and less colloquial.
25. “Bye, Felicia”
Instead of dismissing people or ideas, offer a genuine “goodbye” or “take care.”
Choosing Words Wisely
As we navigate our forties, the phrases we choose can significantly reflect our maturity and the respect we command. Embracing a more refined lexicon isn’t about losing touch with the times; it’s about evolving our dialogue to suit our seasoned perspectives.
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